block: fix surprise removal for drivers calling blk_set_queue_dying

block: fix surprise removal for drivers calling blk_set_queue_dying

Various block drivers call blk_set_queue_dying to mark a disk as dead due
to surprise removal events, but since commit b44b1c0ab7ff that doesn't
work given that the GD_DEAD flag needs to be set to stop I/O.

Replace the driver calls to blk_set_queue_dying with a new (and properly
documented) blk_mark_disk_dead API, and fold blk_set_queue_dying into the
only remaining caller.

Fixes: b44b1c0ab7ff ("block: drain file system I/O on del_gendisk")
Reported-by: Markus Blöchl <markus.bloechl@ipetronik.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220217075231.1140-1-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>