workqueue: better define locking rules around worker creation / destruction
When a manager creates or destroys workers, the operations are always
done with the manager_mutex held; however, initial worker creation or
worker destruction during pool release don't grab the mutex. They are
still correct as initial worker creation doesn't require
synchronization and grabbing manager_arb provides enough exclusion for
pool release path.
Still, let's make everyone follow the same rules for consistency and
such that lockdep annotations can be added.
Update create_and_start_worker() and put_unbound_pool() to grab
manager_mutex around thread creation and destruction respectively and
add lockdep assertions to create_worker() and destroy_worker().
This patch doesn't introduce any visible behavior changes.