io_uring: conditional ->async_data allocation

io_uring: conditional ->async_data allocation

There are opcodes that need ->async_data only in some cases and
allocation it unconditionally may hurt performance. Add an option to
opdef to make move the allocation part from the core io_uring to opcode
specific code.
Note, we can't just set opdef->async_size to zero because there are
other helpers that rely on it, e.g. io_alloc_async_data().

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/9dc62be9e88dd0ed63c48365340e8922d2498293.1661342812.git.asml.silence@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>