ext4 crypto: revalidate dentry after adding or removing the key

ext4 crypto: revalidate dentry after adding or removing the key

Add a validation check for dentries for encrypted directory to make
sure we're not caching stale data after a key has been added or removed.

Also check to make sure that status of the encryption key is updated
when readdir(2) is executed.

Signed-off-by: Theodore Ts'o <tytso@mit.edu>