can: j1939: j1939_session_deactivate(): clarify lifetime of session object

can: j1939: j1939_session_deactivate(): clarify lifetime of session object

The j1939_session_deactivate() is decrementing the session ref-count and
potentially can free() the session. This would cause use-after-free
situation.

However, the code calling j1939_session_deactivate() does always hold
another reference to the session, so that it would not be free()ed in
this code path.

This patch adds a comment to make this clear and a WARN_ON, to ensure
that future changes will not violate this requirement. Further this
patch avoids dereferencing the session pointer as a precaution to avoid
use-after-free if the session is actually free()ed.

Fixes: c4da2dabb66d ("can: add support of SAE J1939 protocol")
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20210714111602.24021-1-o.rempel@pengutronix.de
Reported-by: Xiaochen Zou <xzou017@ucr.edu>
Signed-off-by: Oleksij Rempel <o.rempel@pengutronix.de>
Signed-off-by: Marc Kleine-Budde <mkl@pengutronix.de>