net/mlx5: Avoid double clear or set of sync reset requested
Double clear of reset requested state can lead to NULL pointer as it
will try to delete the timer twice. This can happen for example on a
race between abort from FW and pci error or reset. Avoid such case using
test_and_clear_bit() to verify only one time reset requested state clear
flow. Similarly use test_and_set_bit() to verify only one time reset
requested state set flow.