vfio: Add struct device to vfio_device

vfio: Add struct device to vfio_device

and replace kref. With it a 'vfio-dev/vfioX' node is created under the
sysfs path of the parent, indicating the device is bound to a vfio
driver, e.g.:

/sys/devices/pci0000\:6f/0000\:6f\:01.0/vfio-dev/vfio0

It is also a preparatory step toward adding cdev for supporting future
device-oriented uAPI.

Add Documentation/ABI/testing/sysfs-devices-vfio-dev.

Suggested-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Yi Liu <yi.l.liu@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Tian <kevin.tian@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220921104401.38898-16-kevin.tian@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>