libceph: transition socket state prior to actual connect

libceph: transition socket state prior to actual connect

Once we call ->connect(), we are racing against the actual
connection, and a subsequent transition from CONNECTING ->
CONNECTED.  Set the state to CONNECTING before that, under the
protection of the mutex, to avoid the race.

This was introduced in 8f513f166bd40fad2a44b67f5a4e150d8a4c21ec,
with the original socket state code.

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>