xprtrdma: Basic support for Remote Invalidation

xprtrdma: Basic support for Remote Invalidation

Have frwr's ro_unmap_sync recognize an invalidated rkey that appears
as part of a Receive completion. Local invalidation can be skipped
for that rkey.

Use an out-of-band signaling mechanism to indicate to the server
that the client is prepared to receive RDMA Send With Invalidate.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>