netfilter: nf_tables: use hook state from xt_action_param structure

netfilter: nf_tables: use hook state from xt_action_param structure

Don't copy relevant fields from hook state structure, instead use the
one that is already available in struct xt_action_param.

This patch also adds a set of new wrapper functions to fetch relevant
hook state structure fields.

Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>