rbd: allocate name separate from obj_request

rbd: allocate name separate from obj_request

The next patch will define a slab allocator for a object requests.
To use that we'll need to allocate the name of an object separate
from the request structure itself.

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>