RDMA/nes: Fix SFP+ link down detection issue with switch port disable

RDMA/nes: Fix SFP+ link down detection issue with switch port disable

In case of SFP+ PHY, link status check at interrupt processing can
give false results.  For proper link status change detection a delayed
recheck is needed to give nes registers time to settle.  Add a
periodic link status recheck scheduled at interrupt to detect
potential delayed registers state changes.

Addresses: http://bugs.openfabrics.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=2117
Signed-off-by: Maciej Sosnowski <maciej.sosnowski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>