md: call __md_stop_writes in md_stop

md: call __md_stop_writes in md_stop

From the link [1], we can see raid1d was running even after the path
raid_dtr -> md_stop -> __md_stop.

Let's stop write first in destructor to align with normal md-raid to
fix the KASAN issue.

[1]. https://lore.kernel.org/linux-raid/CAPhsuW5gc4AakdGNdF8ubpezAuDLFOYUO_sfMZcec6hQFm8nhg@mail.gmail.com/T/#m7f12bf90481c02c6d2da68c64aeed4779b7df74a

Fixes: 18f37975fcd8 ("md: move bitmap_destroy to the beginning of __md_stop")
Reported-by: Mikulas Patocka <mpatocka@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Guoqing Jiang <guoqing.jiang@linux.dev>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>