nvme: Prevent resets during paused controller state

nvme: Prevent resets during paused controller state

A paused controller is doing critical internal activation work in the
background. Prevent subsequent controller resets from occurring during
this period by setting the controller state to RESETTING first. A helper
function, nvme_try_sched_reset_work(), is introduced for these paths so
they may continue with scheduling the reset_work after they've completed
their uninterruptible critical section.

Tested-by: Edmund Nadolski <edmund.nadolski@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>