IB{cm, core}: Introduce and use ah_attr copy, move, replace APIs

IB{cm, core}: Introduce and use ah_attr copy, move, replace APIs

Introduce AH attribute copy, move and replace APIs to be used by core and
provider drivers.

In CM code flow when ah attribute might be re-initialized twice while
processing incoming request, or initialized once while from path record
while sending out CM requests. Therefore use rdma_move_ah_attr API to
handle such scenarios instead of memcpy().

Provider drivers keeps a copy ah_attr during the lifetime of the ah.
Therefore, use rdma_replace_ah_attr() which conditionally release
reference to old ah_attr and holds reference to new attribute whose
referrence is released when the AH is freed.

Signed-off-by: Parav Pandit <parav@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>