ixgbe: ensure IPsec VF<->PF compatibility

ixgbe: ensure IPsec VF<->PF compatibility

The VF driver can forward any IPsec flags and such makes the function
is not extendable and prone to backward/forward incompatibility.

If new software runs on VF, it won't know that PF configured something
completely different as it "knows" only XFRM_OFFLOAD_INBOUND flag.

Fixes: cd966c33267e ("ixgbe: add VF IPsec management")
Reviewed-by: Raed Salem <raeds@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Shannon Nelson <snelson@pensando.io>
Tested-by: Konrad Jankowski <konrad0.jankowski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220427173152.443102-1-anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>